How much do I hate that headline? Let me count the ways....infinity of ways.
I just ran into YET ANOTHER of these headlines. I've been seeing them since I was 14 and got a subscription to Seventeen Magazine, which I wanted and LOVED at the time. Of course it taught me that
1) My hair should look like Valerie Bertinelli's on "One Day at a Time"...long and poofy and shiny. So I insisted on products. My hair is now pretty much long and poofy and shiny...I don't use ANY hair products
2) Act stupid and look vapid so boys will like you .... I never did even try that one. Well, I would TRY but I could only pull it off for maybe 30 seconds at a time before I thought something like "Why bother attracting that moron?"
(sorry Phoebe Cates...but you were the queen of the vapid looking Seventeen magazine models at that time)
3) Always choose a swimsuit based on hiding some body flaw.
Big boobs? Minimize them (uh...I always wondered, and still do, on what planet are BIG BOOBS a flaw? I maximized them.)
Broad shoulders? Make them appear narrower (uh...I like my broad linebacker-esque shoulders...it was the 1980s people, we were wearing SHOULDER PADS in the shirt and the jacket which combined with my square linebacker-esque broad shoulders made me look like Joan Crawford at her peak of stylized fabulousness.
Now there are some awesomely BROAD shoulders...or is it an awesomely shouldered broad? Both?
Narrow shoulders? You're not off the hook because that is bad too. Find a suit that broadens them up. Maybe with shoulder pads that act like water wings.
Big butt? Hide it under a skirt.... Kardashian anyone? J-Lo? People are now famous for having huge butts and the swimsuit advice articles still say "hide it.
Small butt? Also a problem. I wonder if, like Mama Bear's porridge in the children's story, there is any butt that is "just right" for the swimsuit fashion police.
Long legs? Get something that chops you off awkwardly in mid thigh so they look shorter.
Short legs? Get something with a leg hole cut up to the waist. I believe this is now known as the "Miley"
Maybe you could skip the vapid look...oh way, probably still in fashion.
Fat thighs? Back to the skirt
Thin thighs? Also not OK, despite our society's obsession with thin. If you actually ARE thin, well then we call your muscled cut leg "masculine."
Long waisted? Chop your body up with color blocking so you look short waisted
Short waisted? Use a solid color or an extremely low bikini bottom to make yourself look long waisted.
Sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't just wear many suits. One to maximize the boobs, which will then need minimizing by the next suit I layer on. A third to narrow my "thick" waist followed by the fourth to "balance" my hourglass figure. A fifth to minimize attention my "athletic" (read big and muscly) and overly long legs, followed by another to lengthen and beef up my now minimized legs.
There are many more figure flaws diagnosed by the magazines but I think you get my point.
Let me present you with my current swimsuit which I believe complements every figure and can be worn by everyone, even dudes:
yeah, that's totally NOT me, but you get the idea. Whatever shorts you have paired with whatever t-shirt you have. Do not bring the little backpack into the pond with you.
Swimsuit articles are up there with spandex in my pants on my list of things that annoy the crap out of me.
Thursday, May 8, 2014
So, last Saturday was the first farmers market of the season here. I was super excited. Partly for the donuts from King Oliver's Donuts. They are super fresh, delicious, and the young people who sell them are hilarious. I'll be stuffing a donut in my face and the young man is telling me to enjoy it and have a good day. Don't talk to me...I'm eating.
ALSO excited for fresh local produce! Got some good deals and a few treats. Then I supplemented with a few things from the Food Coop which is handily less than a block away. I tried to get roughly the same amount of fruit and veg as was in the Organic Bountiful Basket. Partly because it was plenty but wasted none, so not too much. Partly to make for a decent comparison.
So, here's what I got:
Farmers Market (local and all "organic" even if not certified as such)
Greens 7oz $3.50
Kale 8oz 2.00
Spaghetti Squash 7lb 9oz 4.00 (that was just 2 squash!)
Potatoes 2lb8oz 2.50
Garlic 7oz 1.00
Farmers Market Total: 11lb 7oz $13.00 $1.14/lb
Co-op (not local, but organic)
Carrots 5lb 4.99
Onion 1lb 13oz 3.54
Tangerines 14oz 1.28
Grapefruit 2lb8oz 3.43
Co-op Total: 10lb 3oz $13.24 $1.30/lb
The overall TOTAL: 21lb1oz of fruit/veg for $26.24 $1.21/lb
That is pretty good! I did learn from the Bountiful Baskets to get a better variety than I would have previously. One disappointment with the Organic BB was the lack of aromatics (onions and garlic). I eat those everyday so I had to go buy those in addition to the BB. Since I can't get organic locally, that was a challenge. I do have garlic powder and dried onion, but to make a decent soup or omelet or stirfry or etc I really need the fresh product.
The Organic BB cost me $1.76 per pound (assuming no "first basket fee")
The Conventional BB cost me $0.78 per pound
This cost me $1.21 per pound and allowed me to support local producers and a local business.
Obviously it is appropriate to compare it to the Organic BB so it saved me $0.54/lb. That's pretty good. (It is $0.43/lb more than the conventional BB.)
So far the quality of everything has been amazingly good. Comparable to the quality of the food in the Organic BB. Granted there are no strawberries or asparagus, but those aren't ready locally yet so there you are. I still have some strawberry shrub that I made last year and I put that in some gelatin. Not as good as fresh strawberries but oh well. Sometimes I also have it in some stevia-based ginger ale or water. It's still delicious and since it's made with my own home-brewed honey vinegar (from local honey), it's full of probiotics.
Anyway, I guess the upshot is: I can indeed do better with the local/organic when the farmers market is going. It may not be possible to do better, or get local, in the middle of winter so I may still do the occasional Organic BB in the winter months.
Additional savings: Since I have not needed to go to the store for onions/garlic, I have not had the opportunity to impulse shop.
One challenge I'm having is that I'm out of my freezer stash of meat. I got lovely local eggs at the farmers market (jumbo size...truly huge) so I'm not lacking protein, but I suspect I'll be tempted to have more lunches out just to get a burger or BLT or something. I also like some decent meat in my soups. I got a bit of chicken at the co-op, but it's already gone. Tried to make bone broth with the bones...but it tastes like crap so won't be eating that. I wanted to buy some local meat from the vendors, but 6-12$/lb for ground or other low rent cuts is just too damn much for my blood. Nothing but the chicken was on a decent sale at the co-op. Oh well. I have plenty of nuts, beans, lentils, seeds and eggs that I'm not lacking protein, it's just that the soups are not as delicious as with a nice bit of beef or pork or chicken.